Ready to connect more friends without spending hours on every ask from your network?

Hello dear, I'm Lois. There are lots of ways to help people find connections, and plenty of requests coming your way every week. You've probably tried managing it all manually: spreadsheets, LinkedIn searches, endless back-and-forth emails. Yet, here you are.

Unfortunately, most networking feels overwhelming, time-consuming, or just plain chaotic when you're getting five to twenty-five requests every week.

Not with me. I'm refreshingly straightforward, designed specifically for people like you who believe that when you give generously, extraordinary opportunities find their way back to you. I help you discover, grow, nurture, and monetize your network without burning out.

So I invite you to see how I work. Transform your email into a relationship database and start connecting ten times more people in one-tenth the time. I'd be honored to help you handle being the connector everyone turns to - without the overwhelm.

Lois Weisberg caricature illustration honoring the prototypical super connector

The Radical Abundance Manifesto

We are the current and future business leaders of America. We aspire to both do well and to do Good. Not only for ourselves, but for humanity.

We feel uncomfortable with the concept of approaching every interaction, every deal, every sale with a purely "What's in it for me" mentality. To "get our cut". To "take our slice".

We want to be helpful; we love to be helpful.

Discover, Nurture, Grow, and Monetize Your Network

From overwhelmed to organized. From scattered to systematic. From exhausted to energized.I help transform how you leverage your network.

Whether you're helping portfolio companies find partnerships or friends find their next career move, I make it effortless. Here's how I turn your networking superpower into a scalable system:

Nurture your network

Nurture

Help twenty-five friends as easily as one

Grow your connections

Grow

Instantly search your entire network-of-networks to meet perfect collaborators for yourself

Discover relationships

Discover

Zero data entry relationship database. 100s of profiles built in 4 taps.

Monetize connections

Monetize

Turn your network into meaningful revenue by helping your connections

Help 25 People as Easily as You Used to Help One

Turn every vague request into a structured opportunity to help more people

You know the drill. Someone sends you "Do you know anyone in banking?" or "Got any midmarket CEOs?" You want to help, but finding the right person means digging through LinkedIn, crafting emails, and spending twenty minutes on what should take twenty seconds.

Not anymore.

When someone needs connections, simply send them your unique Ask a Connector link. They upload their project details, I search your entire network for perfect matches, and you get a curated list of exactly who they want to meet. You stay in control of every introduction, but I do all the heavy lifting.

Result? You can help twenty-five people as easily as you used to help one. Same quality connections, twenty-five times less work.

Get your custom Ask a Connector link
Ask a Connector interface showing search results and connection options

How It Works:

  • 1
    They upload project details → I analyze and match
  • 2
    You review curated introduction requests
  • 3
    I generate personalized forwardable emails
  • 4
    You send introductions in twenty seconds each
YOU
YOU

Key Capabilities:

  • Search across multiple degrees of separation
  • Connection strength analysis (not just LinkedIn links)
  • Optimal introduction path mapping
  • Trust-based relationship filtering

Grow: One Search Across Your Entire Network-of-Networks

Find the perfect person AND the exact connector to reach them

Your network is powerful, but your friends' networks? That's where the magic happens.

When you need to find a blockchain expert in healthcare or a potential investor for a Series A, I don't just search your direct contacts. I search everyone your network knows, analyze connection strength, and tell you exactly who can make the warmest introduction.

No more wondering "Does Sarah actually know this person well enough to introduce me?" I know who genuinely trusts whom.

One search reveals both your target and your perfect path to reach them. It's like having X-ray vision into every relationship in your extended network.

See My True Network

Discover: Years of Relationship Data in Hours, Zero Typing Required

Your email inbox becomes your most powerful networking database

Hey Lois CRM interface showing detailed relationship profiles and interaction history
Relationship Strength
Communication Patterns
Detailed Profiles

Forget spending months building a CRM from scratch. I analyze your email history and instantly reveal who you actually know, what they care about, how often you interact, and the strength of each relationship.

In just a few hours, I transform years of conversations into a searchable relationship database that would take you months to build manually. No spreadsheets, no data entry, no trying to remember when you last talked to someone or what project they mentioned.

I see patterns you've forgotten - that venture capitalist who's been quietly following your portfolio companies, the executive who always asks about healthcare startups, the connector who introduced you to three of your best clients.

  • 👤Complete contact profiles with interaction history
  • 📊Relationship strength scoring
  • 🎯Interest and expertise mapping
  • 📈Communication frequency analysis

Monetize: Turn Your Network Into a Revenue Stream

Set your own rates or earn from qualified referrals

💰

Ask a Connector

Seekers offer commissions, you choose which to accept. Help those friends that offer commissions but that you don't have time to pursue without Lois' help.

📈

Hey Lois Referrals

We find matches in your network, you forward opportunities. You're always in full control and no is always an option.

Your connections have real value - now you can capture it in two powerful ways.

First, through Ask a Connector, seekers set commission rates they're willing to pay for introductions - either flat fees, percentages, or combinations of both. They also set payment terms like immediate payment, net 15, net 30, or quarterly. You review their offers and decide which opportunities to pursue.

And yes, you can help friends for free, too.

Second, when Hey Lois partners with other clients who need qualified leads, I search your specific network to find people who would be perfect fits. Then I ask you to forward the pre-written opportunity to those relevant contacts. When deals close, you earn substantial referral commissions.

The best part? You're not selling, you're connecting people who genuinely need each other.

Commission Offers

Ask a Connector
Software Partnership
5% of $50K/mo deal
$2,500 / mo
Strategic Consulting
Flat introduction fee
$1,000 / Qualified Lead

Available Referrals

Hey Lois
SaaS Lead Generation
3 matches in your network
$1,500–$7,500

You Get the Credit, I Stay Invisible

I do the work behind the scenes, you look brilliant in front

Illustration showing connector receiving credit while Hey Lois works invisibly behind the scenes

Your reputation as a connector is everything. That's why I never contact anyone in your network directly — ever.

When I find perfect matches for someone's request, I don't send emails on your behalf or reach out to introduce myself. Instead, I give you everything you need to make those connections yourself. I craft the introduction emails, provide the background research, and identify the best paths forward. You send them from your email address.

Your friends and contacts only hear from you. They see you as the thoughtful connector who somehow always knows exactly the right person for their needs. I remain completely invisible, working behind the scenes to make you look like the networking genius you are.

  • Never Email Your Network

    I never contact anyone in your network directly — ever

  • Your Email Address Only

    You send all introductions from your address

  • You Get All Credit

    You get credit for every successful connection

  • I Stay Invisible

    I stay completely behind the scenes

Real Connector Success Stories

See how connectors are using Hey Lois to help more people and grow their impact

"I launched Ask a Connector just yesterday, and I've already used my own link eight times in the first few hours. In the same day, I sent seven introductions and helped my fractional CTO friend secure multiple qualified leads plus a meeting with the head of the North American Venture Capital Association."

"That's the power of flipping the script on networking requests. Instead of spending twenty minutes per vague ask, I'm helping more people in less time while maintaining the quality connections that matter."

"When you give people the tools to help themselves while you focus on making the right connections, everyone wins. That's radical abundance in action."

Bank-Level Data Protection

Your email data is encrypted, processed, and permanently deleted

Your email contains years of valuable relationship data, and protecting it is our highest priority. We use the same security standards that banks use for financial transactions, submit to annual independant lab audits of our code, and passed the rigerous CASA level 2 security clearance.

Here's exactly how your data is protected: Your emails are encrypted with 256-bit encryption during transfer and processing. We're Google CASA level 2 certified, which means we pass annual independent security audits conducted by third-party labs. Most importantly, your email content is processed in memory and then permanently deleted - we don't store your actual emails on our servers.

Even if hackers somehow accessed our systems, your emails wouldn't be there to steal. We extract only the relationship patterns and connection data needed to build your network graph, then the original emails are gone forever.

256-bit encryption

Same security banks use

CASA level 2 certified

Independant lab audited

In-memory processing

No humans can access

Zero email storage

Original content never saved

Data Protection Workflow

1
Encrypted Intake

Email data arrives via TLS and is decrypted only in memory

2
Ephemeral Processing

Signals extracted for relationship strength and to create CRM entries — no email content written to disk

3
Permanent Deletion

Processed content is discarded immediately after use

Join the Radical Abundance Movement

Transform how you leverage relationships and help others succeed

We believe the pie is a lie. Value isn't fixed — it's created when people come together to build something radically more valuable than they could apart. One introduction can create billions in enterprise value where none existed before.

This is your invitation to give radically and receive exponentially. Help ten times more friends and companies find the connections they need. Turn your network into a force for radical abundance — for others and for yourself.

The connectors who embrace this philosophy don't just succeed — they help entire ecosystems thrive. When you help others win, extraordinary opportunities find their way back to you.

So I invite you to begin. Transform your email into a relationship database, start helping more people than ever before, and become the connector everyone turns to — without the overwhelm.

I'd be honored to help you unlock radical abundance.

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Garrett Dunham, garrett@heylois.com

Founder & CEO